Many women think they should be valued and attractive to men because of their accomplishments and independence of not “needing” a man.
In reality, most healthy quality males will respect you for your hard work, accomplishments, and independence however typically that’s not what they are seeking from you as a perspective partner.
I recognized that I did not have to be this fierce warrior style woman, it was safe for me to not have it all figured out, and I didn’t have to prove anything to him about my independence or what was or was not on my wall of accomplishments.A lot of men tend to think that you need to be the hottest guy in the room, or say a great pick up line to get a girl to be attracted to you. Women don’t always fall for the hot guy, or the guy that uses a pick up line to get her.Women know when a guy is using a disingenuous pick up line and it’s usually a complete turn off to a woman.Its honorable that you can pay your own bills, fix your own stuff, etc …but are you openly allowing a man into your world and allowing them to be men?
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