Avoid this by sitting down with your partner and writing down what each of you wants out of the relationship.Compare your lists to make sure that you are on the same page.
The important thing is that you have the same goals.At the very least, he’s had some significant relationships.Men want to feel appreciated, and a lot of times they’ll talk about leaving a previous relationship because they didn’t feel loved and appreciated.If your goals are similar, good communication can help you to find an agreement on how to reach those goals. Assume That Sex Will Be Different Sex with an older man is frequently different than with a younger man and this isn’t necessarily a bad thing.Although sometimes he will need more stimulation and take longer to reach orgasm, an older man also tends to not be in such a hurry. Sex with an older man isn’t just about intercourse.
Understand his goals, and find ways to support, rather than sabotage, his efforts. Have “No Destination” Sex – Many older men start to experience erectile dysfunction after they turn fifty, and performance anxiety is a very real thing for guys.