There are two people in the relationship, after all.
This means she will always have her family around, and not just physically. Latino families love — and I mean love — to gossip.
Which, hey, on the accidental privilege scale, it could be worse. So, when potential girlfriends find out, they don’t usually care about any of this. I get it, you’re talking to someone for the first time, and maybe you’re caught off guard.
They aren’t interested in my career as a professional soccer player, that coming out to Colombian parents was difficult, yet not impossible, or that my Spanish accent sounds like I’m Spaniard. Instead, I get asked a standard set of questions to test my level of “Spanishness”:“Are both of your parents Colombian? Your experience with Latinas is Sofia Vergara, when I look like Ellen and a mop had a baby.
However, don't expect her to have a home-cooked meal every night for you, and don't expect her to clean up after you. Most Latin countries teach their women to cook, clean and look after the men and children.
Is it too much to ask for her man to help out every once in a while?
Put 10 Latinas in a line and chances are there will be more physical differences than similarities.
And you, as my future partner, need to be okay with the fact that reality and fantasy can be inconsistent. When Latinas dress up, everyone imagines stilettos, long, flowing, dark hair, and salsa music playing in the background.
If you're a gringo who doesn't speak a lick of Spanish, we'll probably poke fun at you for trying to use a language you don't know. Don't use stereotypical phrases for us, and we won't call you a gringo.Now, this might be the most important truth I will tell you.Latinas tend to get the most heat for cooking every night and being clean freaks.When dating a Latina, I promise you will find five of the following traits in the women you come across.Whether she's from the Caribbean, Central America or South America, Latinas have a lot more in common than you may think.
Not only is it considered rude to a Latin family if you go inside a house without eating, but you'll probably never see her again after that.