Every guy would like to be able to bring home ladies he meets at bars. Women can sense if you're needy for sex/female validation, and it skeeves them out.
The guys who attract lots of women aren't needy for them, because they already have them.
I cannot emphasize enough the importance of dressing well, and having your look together.
In a bar/club environment, women will flirt with you if you are looking good... Guys who talk about, "women don't approach men in clubs", obviously aren't looking good when they go out.
This doesn't mean dressing up like some clown pick-up artist, wearing fedoras and goggles...
And you don't need classical "good-looks" by any stretch of the imagination.
Again, if you go out and no women look at you, smile at you or talk to you, it's time to look at the other things that you are doing... I might go to those places for fun, and I could possibly find someone I'd like there, but those places don't typically cater to the demographic I'm interested in.
They might think they are, but their poor results speak for themselves.
You won't believe how much female attention you will get just by tweaking your look a little.
But, in order to reach this goal, you need to back off it for a minute and get your understanding straight.
So many guys focus all their energy on picking up women when they go out, that they forget to have a good time.
Even better, a decent percentage of these girls will be open to going home with you if you know what you are doing! If you want to get better at meeting women at bars/clubs it's important to enjoy going out, without worrying about trying to bring somebody home.