I have a young friend who had excepted the Islamic faith some time ago.Prior to excepting his new Faith he was sexually active with his girlfriend.I dont mean pleasuring my self or masterbating, I think of it in the moment and it happens.I cant stop it because a lot of girls in my school dress semi naked or very open. I just think of sexual things for a little then look away and think of something else. Do I lose ghusl when I see a picture of somebody naked?How often has free mixing between the sexes (men and women) in educational establishments, workplaces or elsewhere, been the cause of temptation and widespread evil!The one who never spoke on the basis of his own whims and desires (i.e., the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) spoke the truth when he said: “I have not left behind me any fitnah (trial) that is more harmful to men than woman.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5096) and Muslim (2740).
My diet includes an egg in the breakfast, meat (chicken, beef, mutton), rice in lunch and dinner.
Now he is engaged to be married in a couple of years and him and his Fiance have sex and masterbate for each other.
The reason for the delay in the marriage is that they are financially unstable at this point.
Thirdly: The Muslim must strive to control himself and make himself lower his gaze as much as he can.
If his gaze happens to fall on a woman who is not permissible for him, without him intending to do that, then this is forgiven, but he is instructed to avert his gaze after that.
He wants to know if masterbation and intercourse is permisble under these circumstances and if they are not what can he do to remedy this? We praise Allaah for having blessed your friend and guided him to Islam, as we ask Allaah to make him steadfast in adhering to it until death.