Rather than asking him or her such questions directly, lay low and gather your information over time.
Assess Your Social Circles Take an honest look at your friends and anyone else who is a recurring character in your social life.
Are you always up for something fun and spontaneous?
Do you like to feel the occasional rush of adrenaline and stimulation?
Once everyone has performed, switch items and reassign teams. Learn to crochet There is bound to be a few people in your ward that would be great at teaching the basics. Photography Have someone come and talk about elements of taking better pictures: composition, lighting, backgrounds, etc.
Invite them all (more adults = more one on one for the girls that need it). Let them practice with their phones :) BONUS: send them around the building on a photo scavenger hunt You can bundle up and head out in the cold December night OR surprise your friends and neighbors with a Christmas in July visit.
(It will never be exactly the same for two different people.) Assess Your Proclivity for Indulgences While many behaviors in the extreme form represent a problem or even an addiction, some of those same behaviors can be harmless if not taken to the extreme.