we've been through a lot together had our share of fights... she's been seeing someone else recently she's honest about it but it bothers me a lot and she knows that.I've told her that I loved her and I think its freaked her out abit.
It's a tough balancing act but it seems to be a universal trend. A: There's 'casual dating' and then a mysterious in-between phase I like to call the "Not Exactly Casual Anymore" stage. It's the stage when an allegedly 'casual' couple hints at, or blatantly talks about, spending tons of time together, planning trips, or what color eyes their kids will have.
On top of that she drinks and it's causing problems as well. If you love her, you would let her go sort out her own problems, and be with this other guy- he is more important to her than focusing her attention on her relationship with you.
And you should probably try to change your drinking habits.
My feeling is that she will come running to you the moment you are Truly not interested in her anymore.
I'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 in September and I'm in year 10.
If you bail, don't break up with her yet, because she will make you pay for it by breaking up with you first.