He recently responded to question in The Love Systems' Lounge about phone vs. Normally Lounge stuff is strictly confidential, but Dan agreed to make a "public version" of his response to share with you. Phone and text game is the place where have the least excuse to screw up.
Let me explain: If you screw up your opener, big deal. You can probably even take another shot at her later on that night.
DO call him if he gave you his number, card or flirtatiously put his number in your phone without you knowing, or any other way he gave you his digits. If he doesn’t call, then you know it is time to let it go. This may be hard for some of you, because what is the harm to just chat?
You want to leave some mystery for him to figure out.
You can tell him that story or ask about his grandmother on the second date. When You Are Dating Each Other When you are dating him or starting to see each other, means you have been hanging out at least once a week for about 4 – 6 weeks.
With social media use being at it’s highest ever, there is no reason you can’t get a hold of someone at a moments notice, from Facebook to Twitter, e-mail and of course the phone. We did a lot of research on this, and this is what seems to be the way to handle dating in the new age of technology.
Especially with all of the Smartphones and Iphones and all of the creative Apps. Before the First Date Do NOT call him if he didn’t give you his number.
It depends on the situation, how you met her, how attracted she is to you, how close you are to making plans, and so on.