Subsequently, I learned that Sugar Daddies were more likely to turn down a prospective arrangement over my conduct than they were over the fact that I showed up for a date in jeans and a t-shirt.
There is an art to communicating your needs with poise and charm – read on for the tips that I found most helpful.
Sometimes, a question or comment posed by a POT may come off as condescending or insulting. He had never dealt with such a circumstance, so he wasn’t intentionally being rude. Remember that you’re conversing with someone who knows little to nothing about your circumstances or your past.
For example, a man once said to me on a first date, “why don’t your parents pay your rent? Keep in mind that he may be skeptical due to hearing tales of struggle from other women, which proved to be untrue.
One way I have responded to this in the past is by letting him know that I would consider being pampered in other ways in the future once my needs have changed.
But, for now, it is in my best interest to find a benefactor who could provide an allowance.
Talk about your goals and what you’re doing to achieve upward mobility beyond seeking a Sugar Daddy.
It’s also a turn-off because it may make him feel like you’re only after his money and not interested in him as a person.
Poor communication in the workplace will inevitably lead to unmotivated staff that may begin to question their own confidence in their abilities and inevitably in the organisation.
With 40 years of recruitment experience we understand the value of good communication.
Maybe you’re an aspiring entrepreneur who needs help with the start-up costs for a small business.
State clearly the desired type of allowance and your goals in your Seeking Arrangement profile.
A potential Sugar Daddy who wants to be generous in other ways may still contact you.