I have given them all kinds of advice and a long list of my expectations and rules regarding them dating.I have often joked with them that any boy who takes them out is going to have to sign a contract understanding the rules before they take the first step out of the door.The other night I saw them (they didn't se me) at the grocery store..now all of the emotions are so present again. I guess I'm just asking for a little insight from others, or perhaps some good questions to ask myself to help get through this really weird situation. I think that your sister has done a bad thing but what is done is done , u cant undone it but u need to be strong and to feel strong they dont have to feel that u still have some feelings u cant let them know that but in my opninion keep the distance @Renobo Mc Noodle - I only have brothers, so it's hard to picture myself in your situation, but I think it's very understandable to be confused, a little hurt, and concerned about this.It sounds like it might help to talk to your sister, and maybe even to your ex, to understand where this came from, process your feelings, and get some closure.I inquired about it and my mother's response was something to the effect of, "I saw him, and invited him to dinner, for several years he was my son." And, at first I thought...that's actually wonderful.I have always hoped for the best for him and wished that he would eventually find happiness and peace.
These two young girls decided that if a boy is going to take out one of their big sisters, they would come up with some rules of their own. The young man smiled when he finished and told them he understood the rules and signed the contract. Don’t kill him no matter how much of an idiot he is at times.The last huge episode was last November and starting in May I began to open up to her again.I went to her house a few time for coffee, opening up the dialog while also maintaining my boundaries.I don't feel like it's my place to be disapproving or angry, but I am.THe loving part of me wants them to be happy and the human part of me gets naseus thinking about it. Seeing them together at the store the other day...thank god they didn't see me, made it all too real.
But, as the text went on with my mother, I discovered that in fact, my sister and ex are dating.