But being large and in charge doesn’t mean that you’re doomed to a life of being forever alone; in fact, you may find that you have far more options for finding love, sex and happiness than you’d ever believe possible. There are plenty of notable examples out there if you look around. Seth Rogan is no Abercrombie and Fitch model but he’s also happily married.Large dudes will frequently lament that their size automatically disqualifies them from dating – they believe that there is simply no way a woman could possibly like somebody who’s body isn’t rippled and shiny like a buttered ear of corn. Kevin Smith, for all of his fashion sins that I will get into in a second, is happily married with a lovely wife and daughter. It’s easy to forget this when the TV and magazines are showing you nothing but image after image of cut, veiny men with swimmers builds with women draped all over them like fur stoles, but women actually like a far wider range of body types than we’d think.It’s spring time, and many of us big guys are feeling the need to sow some wild oats, recover from that winter hibernation, and find a bear, cub or chaser that can help relieve that pent-up tension.Last time we offered our chasers a look into a fling with a big man, and now it’s time for six secrets that every chub needs to know before starting their spring fling!Last week, the #fatshamingweek hastag was trending on Twitter as numerous assholes and shitbags took to the network and decided to mock fat people – mostly women, but men too – from behind the dubious anonymity of their Twitter accounts.Now we could dwell on the fact that these various winners are not gym-sculpted Adonnises themselves, but instead I want to focus on the positive and work on people’s lives instead of trying to stroke the hate-boner.If you've been passing up chubby guys for skinny or muscular ones because you assume that they can't be great lovers or they're unhealthy, then listen up. RELATED: Men With Big Bellies Make Better Lovers (Says Science), happily married newlyweds are more likely to gain weight after their weddings, unlike their unhappily married counterparts. Practice loving yourself and your lover no matter how much you both weigh.
There’s no denying that looks find you attractive is to understand that being fat isn’t a cut and dry issue. Some people can lose weight without barely trying while others can exercise and diet until their eyes bleed and barely see the scale shift.
) then a guy with a little extra fat may be the perfect partner in crime.
Every once in a while, I like to poll my readers on the Nerd Love Facebook Page and on Twitter to find out what issues they feel are holding them back when it comes to dating.
RELATED: 10 Things Only Women Who Date Chubby Men Will Understand4. Researchers for the found that overweight people (but not obese) may live longer than people that are clinically normal body weight. A study out of Turkey concluded that overweight men with obvious bellies last longer in bed than their thinner counterparts.
So if your end goal is to live longer (and whose isn't? Chubby guys have more of the female sex hormone estradiol in their bodies, which slows down their orgasms — meaning you guys can get it on all night long.
There's nothing like getting enveloped by a bigger man's arms.