It’s not about what you do in particular that’s important, but the excitement that’s involved in doing it.
Talking about your ex on a first date and constantly trash talking her will send any girl your dating running for the hills.
This sort of behaviour will be seen as a major red flag.
Someone who is confident and happy in their life isn’t going to feel the need to talk down to anyone.
Make sure your own life is filled with stuff you love doing because your priorities in life shouldn’t be focused on someone you’re dating.
Contrary to popular belief, you don’t need to be 6 foot or taller, built like Channing Tatum and be such an alpha male you have testosterone oozing out of you.
Not only is it making you look bad, but it’s also showing your holding onto resentment or anger over whatever caused the breakup.
Even if this isn’t obvious at first, eventually she’s going to see you for who you really are, and attraction will die very quickly. Even if you love star wars, politics, or having your butthole tickled when receiving a blow job. There’s no more awkwardness and it adds a significantly more romantic vibe into the mix. If she’s sitting on the fence, a kiss has the potential to make or break it. The last thing you want is someone that see’s you as a maybe instead of a yes or no. Dinner and movie dates are dull, boring and should be avoided like a bubonic plague infected feminist.
Nothing will make you blend in with every other dude out there than picking something dull and uneventful to do on a first date.
You can be shy, short, over weight but still be happy with who you are as an individual. She might give some subtle signals but generally us men will miss them… Women love a guy that’s willing to put his balls on the line, be vulnerable and take action on it. Even if she turns you down, you’ve still won points for having the courage to give it a go.
Pretending to be someone you’re not is just communicating you don’t like who you are, so why would she like you? Once you’ve kissed her for the first time, the entire dynamic changes to a much more relaxed one.