Whatever you call them, flirty text messages are the reality for most people dating in 2017.And text message flirting can be just as scary as in-person flirting.They'll be dying to find out."When do I get to see you again?
Think of this as a slightly subtler version of, "I can't stop thinking about you." But just what about them makes you smile?This text works for already established flirtations, but just as well if your situation isn't quite fully fledged yet.It's vague enough to keep you both safely in your comfort zones, but it's also relatively platonic (though that's open to interpretation)."Wanna skip class/work and hang out with me instead?This way, you can start establishing a stronger emotional connection and find out all the important things you have in common."Just worked out, ready to hit the showers!"Why it works: A post-workout text is a classic way to get your crush thinking about you in some steamier situations.
Greenberg confirms what many of us already know: More than likely, your crush is into you if they carry on the conversation and respond without too much of a lag time. (But if you're already there, here's how to kick the conversation up a notch.)While we're arguably more in control of and confident about our sexuality than ever, there's still so much we don't know about female arousal.