I live a simple life and I don't care about material things I need a God fearing man, nice, loving, caring, I am a homely person. I like reading, watching movies, cooking and listening to music. I believe in equality and respect no matter what we come from. I am out-going, open-minded, loyal, faithful and passionate. I would like to meet a good man to build a happy future together. Dressed in a traditional batik shirt, he drove us straight from his office near KLCC to the venue in Petaling Jaya.“Decades of social engineering within the education system, national media and government departments, coupled with policies favouring the Malays as the indigenous race, has resulted in a conservative, conformist mainstream population,” he said.“There’s been increasing pressure to curtail the freedom of movement and expression of LGBT people in this way.” “Most gay men and lesbians even in KL are not publicly out, and many are not out at work or with their families; so they are mostly hidden.” While this “social engineering” may align with the traditionally-minded, or the politically-uncritical, Malaysia’s youth are increasingly progressive.“You really want to tell your parents but you can’t because you don’t want to ruin the relationship you have with them.” “They would say you’d go to hell for it.They’d probably try and talk you out of it, or send you to a religious teacher for some brainwashing conversion therapy.” “My family is very conservative, which is why it’s very hard for me to actually tell them the truth.” Suddenly the lights dim.My date Hafiz, a 24-year-old lawyer, explained: “In Kuala Lumpur people are considered more liberal, and the younger generation is a lot more accepting.“We’ve been opened up to LGBT ideas in the media, in songs and movies.” After about 40 minutes of navigating through Kuala Lumpur’s notorious Friday traffic, we arrive at the wedding venue.
Family, friends, and colleagues make up the hundreds of guests; the men wear smart casuals or full , eagerly scooped up by people making their second and third rounds. They smile as I say hello with a mouth full of rice.
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Am a woman if humor, nice, kind, loving and caring I treat people equal irrespective of who they are.
“Committing carnal intercourse against the order of nature” (namely oral or anal sex) could land you up to 20 years in prison or a whipping sentence, thanks to the country’s colonial-era penal code left by the British.
Raymond Tai, Chief Operations Officer at The Pink Triangle Foundation (an LGBT charity in Kuala Lumpur), says the Malaysian government uses the subjects of race and religion “to exert anti-gay influence” over the Malay-majority population.
As long as you suppress the feeling and you try not to do anything sexual you’re fine — falling in love is natural.