I told him (the guy who is now my ex) that I like him Me and him started going out my so called bestie like him when we’re going out and flirted with him and I knew that she did but she didn't’t tell me I told him (my ex)that my bestie liked him he was really worried 2 days later he dumped me on facebook I...I told him (the guy who is now my ex) that I like him Me and him started going out my so called bestie like him when we’re going out and flirted with him and I knew that she did but she didn't’t tell me I told him (my ex)that my bestie liked him he was really worried 2 days later he dumped me on facebook I was heartbroken and again so called bestie started to flirt with him again I told Laura that im not over him she said she would be loyal and stay away from him and then my guy friend (new boyfriend that I don’t really like) told me I that he like me i was so depressed the last couple of days and he was really there for me and I kind liked him but I didn't’t really and he was all really happy and so I guess we were kind going out and we had to tell everyone including my ex but I was only three days ago that he dump me he seemed jealous he my boyfriend told him he said I was cool but then he was really weird after I told him that I still liked him and everything that was going on It all most seemed like he wanted me to dump my new boyfriend (because he was saying stuff like if you don’t dump him then someone might not be able to ask you out(but he says stuff like this but does mean it like it just a random example and he also flirt with everyone) and now here I am still in love with my him and not my boyfriend and then I started to notice something my “BESTIE” and my ex were hugging and walk everywhere together and other stuff too and I started to think the they like each other today my bestie asked If she could talk to me alone and my ex came too I knew what was coming but I did want to hear it and so I pushed past him and walked off into the bathroom and she came after me and wanted to talk but I didn't’t want to talk to her (she told me she was going to be loyal to me I have been besties with her for 3 year and we had only know him for like 4 months and I really thought I would come first with her but I was wrong) I missed 2 class because I was crying one of my other bestie comforted me for the whole time and when lunch came I went to the library and stayed there waiting for my other besti who stayed with me and anyway my ex came in so I walked out of there and my “bestie” (not really) my new boyfriend and my ex was the crowding me and tell me to tell them what was wrong so I ask if I could that to my bestie for a sec and I told her what was wrong and she walked off (I told there that I was confused and I said to her ‘I thought you would be loyal to me?Do you have to deal with your friend's unresolved feelings, or worse, your current boyfriend's?Do you feel like you're being forced to choose either a new love or an old pal?
After chattering for a couple minutes, my ex stood up and openly said, "Me and Rachel(Best Friend) love eachother." I was completely shocked. I still have feelings for him, and right now it seems like I just want to break down and cry.
If she is not a close friend then you do not need to discuss your dating plans with her. Third, how upset is your friend about the break-up?
You also do not need to talk about her ex around her regardless of how close you are or aren't. If you have a close friend who is reeling from a break-up then you absolutely need to speak to her and talk to her about her feelings about you possibly dating her ex.
If your friend is not terribly upset about the break-up and has already moved on and re-grouped then the coast is clear for you to date the ex.
The answer to your question is that YES you may date the ex but do so with sensitivity and after an appropriate amount of time has passed. G For more articles like this see my website: CASTING ALERT!
Especially because a week before Christmas he and I got into a huge fight with each other.