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Did you play saxophone instead of point guard in high school? Get your geek on with other sharp singles at our monthly Dating for Nerds parties where trivia quizzes and ferocious board gaming wins you prizes as well as hearts!We’re meant to feel sorry for the poor, lovelorn geeks, and like it’s unfair that the the girl fell for someone charming and attractive rather than the guy who can’t even look her in the eye.Then the geek then somehow “wins”, discredits the popular guy, and has the girl fall in love with him.That's not because women are superficial beings, it's because people deserve to be in relationships with people they want rather than people who feel they “deserve” them. Being a nerd isn’t going to stop you from finding love, but being an entitled, bitter asshole will.I’m not saying that women never will and never should fall for the nerds – I am married to one, actually, and we’re very happy together – but I am saying that no-one has the right to a sexual relationship and shaming people from not wanting to date you is a horrible thing to do.
So many fairy tales revolve around men going through trials and earning their brides, so many video games involve the protagonist earning the right to rescue or sleep with a woman, and so many films - Superbad, Can’t Hardly Wait, Zombieland, American Pie, Loser, Back To The Future - have the geek getting the girl in the end.