However this is not really a sign of their unresponsive nature but a way of keeping their emotions in control.
Swedish men are rather shy of demonstrating how they feel and would much rather keep their emotions to themselves.
Ever since moving to Europe three years ago, and particularly since launching this male-objectifying exercise of a blog, I have been repeatedly advised – no, instructed – to go to Scandinavia.
I’m talking about friends, coworkers, readers, you name it, all promising me some sort of cathartic experience in the land of herring and Ikea, complete with the discovery of my own 7-foot tall Bjorn Ironside with superpowers in the sack. To be frank, I went at a time that I’m sufficiently satisfied with my love life (blame it on the new moon), hence this was more explorative research than Viking-hunting mission.
They would rather listen than talk If you are dating a Swedish man, you may find yourself doing most of the talking in the relationship.
And even after you have asked him three questions in a row, he may still not send one your way.
So here is a brief guide to what Swedish men are like and how to make the best of a relationship with your Nordic hero.
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Get ready to stand in an equal-opportunity line with 50 blue-haired bloggers, then in yet another line for a beer, then sit on benches staring at parades of what looks like The Other Stories catalog come to life. Don’t construe this as a sign of his disinterest in you; in fact Swede males much prefer to do the listening rather than talking themselves.And indeed if you come from a part of the world where women are expected only to be seen and not heard, this can be a refreshing change.So when going out with a Swede on a date, don’t forget to carry your purse along, together with enough cash and your credit cards too, for good measure.Slow and steady Yet another aspect of Swedish men which makes for slow dating is their cautious natures.
Indeed if your Swede guy has treated you to a movie or theater, you may even be expected to cover the after-dinner coffee or drinks.